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What Time, Change, and Lord Shiva Have Taught Me About Life

What Time, Change, and Lord Shiva Have Taught Me About Life

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A Quiet Reflection on Life, Love, and Lord Shiva

I don’t know about you, but over the past 20 years, I’ve experienced nearly everything. Each generation believes it is wiser and more active than the one before it. However, as time passes, the new generation replaces the old, and they inevitably come to the same realization. It’s just a matter of time before they go through the same experiences. 

Nothing is permanent. I have seen friendships change, the pandemic outbreak, AI evolution, financial institutions’ collapse, countries fall apart, and even war—everything is uncertain. You cannot take anything for granted.

People change over time as circumstances change. Many famous social media influencers often lack depth, and the reality of their lives frequently differs from what they portray online. This phenomenon reflects pseudofeminism and superficial modernization.

Numerous individuals walking around with fake smiles, presenting themselves as if they are perfect and capable of anything. Many of these people are driven by the ego of their youth and the money they possess, failing to recognize that life is not linear; rather, it is circular.

Sadly, real human emotions are disappearing from society and among people. We are becoming dependent on the AI chatbot and assistance to share our feelings and emotions. These days, it is rare to find people with whom you can truly open up. An old friend, who was once very dear to me, has changed significantly. In the past, we would engage in meaningful, deep conversations for hours about living an ideal spiritual life. However, today he only talks about his possessions and the luxury vehicles he is considering buying. I miss the old friend who was emotionally connected to me, not the new one who seems self-centered.

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Achieving financial success isn’t wrong; it’s a personal journey. With your finances, you can do many good things. Money is simply energy that reveals your true self. But I miss the moments when we used to have deep, meaningful philosophical discussions about life and Lord Shiva. Someone to whom you can show your wounds and vulnerability, and who will not take advantage of that.

Fortunately, not everything is negative; this world is still filled with goodness and positive change. Many individuals in society are dedicated to making the world a better place for all. In India, we are witnessing a significant transformation: the economy is growing rapidly, infrastructure is developing, and new opportunities are emerging for the people. 

A majority are reconnecting with their roots, and Sanatan Dharma is experiencing a resurgence in society. People are recognizing the power of meditation, ancient wisdom, and technology. Yoga is becoming increasingly popular worldwide, stemming from the world’s oldest culture, Sanatan Dharma, also known as Hinduism.

Humanity is moving closer to rediscovering lost ancient values that were once considered outdated. I am one of those individuals who loves reading books, visiting temples, and discovering my inner self by Connecting with Lord Shiva

The lessons we have learned from our parents are becoming more relevant. This is because people in Sanatan Dharma are still connected to strong family systems. Women in this culture are respected and revered as goddesses. It is because of our parents that we are in this world.

My parents are kind and compassionate toward their children; however, they don’t fully understand my work, and that’s okay. They come from an older generation, and I accept that. The most important thing is that they love me, and I love them. 

Family is special because we all look out for each other. Both of my sisters are dear to me; they are my best friends. I feel protective of them, and I genuinely believe that their futures are bright and promising—one of them is a robotics engineer, and the other has completed a master’s degree in English. The sky is clear in front of them, and they are free to fly in it.

I am grateful to Lord Shiva for my wife, Kavita, who loves me unconditionally. As a housewife, she believes that we are not two separate individuals, but one. Kavita motivates me when I feel low or tired and takes care of my health, especially when I spend too much time working on a chapter of my book. 

She gently asks me when I last took a 45-minute walk, and when I tell her it was in the morning, she is happy to hear that and reminds me to continue writing. She also believes that writing is my responsibility, assigned by Lord Shiva, and encourages me to find joy in fulfilling it. She is my biggest supporter and resonates with me on the same inner-energy frequency.

In the evenings, she listens as I share my daily activities. When I tell her I received friendly emails and texts from subscribers who read my articles or books, she gets happy and shares her day. I view my parents as embodiments of Lord Shiva and Devi Parvati, and I strive to serve them. I recognize the divine in them, while also acknowledging their humanity and limitations.

Nevertheless, one thing is certain: they are some of the most innocent and simple-hearted people on the planet. I feel truly fortunate to have them in my life. As they grow, my responsibility to take their best care is growing as well, and with the grace of Lord Shiva, I’m doing so to the best of my ability. 

Writing gives me the faith to continue living my life with love and compassion. I aspire to lead a humble and fulfilling life, one where I can share respect and dignity with my family. I have entrusted everything to Lord Shiva and am following the path he has shown me.

Aum Namah Shivaya is my life mantra, while Kavita is a devotee of Shree Ram. This creates a special bond between us. The more I worship Shiva, the closer I feel to Shree RamLikewise, the more she devotes herself to Shree Ram, the more she connects with Lord Shiva. It is an indescribable feeling. 

As you may know, Lord Shiva resides in the heart of Shree Ram, and Shree Ram’s name is dear to Lord Shiva. When I connected with Lord Shiva, it was the first time I truly felt inner peace. 

Suddenly, all the chaos in my mind settled, and tears flowed from my eyes. I realized how beautiful Lord Shiva is. It was because of him that I began writing and ultimately became an author. 

Although I may not be a million-dollar author, the most important aspect of being a writer for me is that I can share the glory of Lord Shiva with the world through my writing. I want people to understand that the most essential thing in life is to achieve inner peace and to live with dignity.

Living a life free from all the deceptions of the world is what I desire, and Lord Shiva has provided me with that. Whatever I need, I receive from Shiva without even asking, just like a father who understands his son’s needs and takes care of him in every situation. The only thing I need to remember is to follow the path of Dharma (righteousness).

I recently published my new book titled How to Earn Your First $500 from Self-Publishing Non-Fiction Books Even in Your Pajamas.

While I have mixed feelings about the title, my goal in writing this book is to help new writers achieve their first breakthrough as authors. If you have read it, I would love to hear your thoughts. You can also share your review on Amazon, as the book is exclusive to that platform.

Before concluding, I want to express my gratitude for your support and for taking the time to read this post. My readers and subscribers are truly compassionate, and I am thankful for their kindness and encouragement.

Keep smiling and stay healthy.

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Santosh Gairola | Dated: 18 Dec 2025

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